Fleur Lonsdale, hypnotherapist and subconscious coach, walking on the beach in Australia
hypnotherapy, 1:1 with me ✦

8 Week & 12 Week Programs · Hypnotherapy · NLP · Coaching Alongside

You don't want to talk about it.
You want to stop feeling it.

Hypnotherapy works underneath the part of you that reasons, explains and manages. Which is exactly why it reaches things that talking about them never has.

Which one is yours?

Both are 1:1 hypnotherapy with me, and both run over eight or twelve weeks depending on the level of what you're carrying. The difference is what we point it at.

for the woman who is always on edge

She Exhales

Stress & Anxiety

The dread that's there even when nothing is wrong. The 3am wake-up. Snapping at the people you love and hating yourself for it. The needing to control everything. You have been holding your breath for years.

for the woman who plays small

She Expands

Confidence & Abundance

Saying what you want three days later in the shower. Not asking for the money, the promotion, the thing. Dimming yourself so nobody feels uncomfortable. You've been taking up less room than you need.

Most women recognise themselves in one straight away. If you see yourself in both, that's normal, and it's what the free call is for. We'll pick the right one together, along with whether you need eight weeks or twelve.

Hypnotherapy works on a lot more than this

She Exhales and She Expands are the two I run most often, because they're what women ask me for most. They are nowhere near the limit of what this works on.

  • Weight loss
  • Stopping smoking
  • Addictions
  • Grief and loss
  • Fears and phobias
  • Pain relief
  • Migraines
  • Fertility
  • Pregnancy and childbirth
  • Breech birth
  • Learning difficulties

Some of these sit alongside your doctor's or midwife's care rather than replacing it, and I will always be straight with you about which is which. I don't diagnose, prescribe or cure.

What this is, and what it isn't

Most women arrive with an idea of hypnotherapy that came from telly. Let's clear it up before you decide anything.

This program is...

  • This program is based on real results and proven techniques
  • This program is a short-term process that teaches you how to naturally take control
  • This program is one that offers a subconscious solution to help you naturally break free
  • This program is an all natural method that uses the power of your own mind to help you choose better outcomes
  • This program is 1:1 with me, over eight or twelve weeks, with a real end date

This program is for women who are serious about getting results fast.

What this program is NOT:

  • This program is not therapy
  • This program is not long-term
  • This program is not based on theory
  • This program is not based on medication or a medical modality
  • This program is not meditation or mindfulness
  • This program is not deep breathing
  • This program is not stage hypnosis

This program is not for you if you are not ready to break free.

If this is your normal, you're in the right place

You don't need a crisis to deserve this. Most of the women I work with are functioning perfectly well and quietly fed up with how it feels.

You're stressed and anxious at work. Then you come home and you're stressed and anxious there too. There's nowhere it switches off.
You feel like you're always on edge. Braced for the next thing, even on the days when nothing is actually happening.
You want more confidence. Not the performed kind you can already do. The kind where you actually back yourself.
You want to own yourself. To say what you want when you feel it, instead of three days later in the shower.
You're frustrated with yourself, and frustrated with the people around you, and you're tired of being both.
You want more peace, more ease, and honestly, more fun. You'd like to enjoy your own life again.
And there are a few old wounds you'd quietly like to heal while you're here.

None of that makes you broken, and none of it needs to get worse before it's worth doing something about.

You're allowed to want your life to feel better than this.

What you're actually getting

The sessions are where the change happens. Everything else exists so the change holds after you close the laptop.

01

1:1 hypnotherapy sessions with me

Live, online, 60 minutes each. Not a recording, not a group call you're one of thirty on. Four sessions over eight weeks, or six over twelve. Mainly hypnotherapy, with the coaching that naturally comes with it.

02

The community that comes with it

Full access for the length of your program. The other women in there are doing the same work you are, which means you stop being the only person you know who's doing this.

03

The full hypnosis library

My self-paced recordings, included alongside your sessions. The ones you reach for in the gaps between us, and in the week where the old feeling has one last go at you.

04

A recording made for you

After each session you get an audio built around exactly what we worked on, in my voice, using the words that landed for you. Yours to keep after the program ends.

05

Me, between sessions

Voice note access when something comes up mid-week. You don't sit on a breakthrough, or a wobble, for six days waiting for your next call.

06

No homework you'll resent

Small, specific practices matched to what we moved that week. This work isn't meant to feel like a second job. It lingered this long because the people helping you made it linger.

Hypnotherapy, with coaching where it naturally goes

These programs are mainly hypnotherapy. That's where the change happens, and it's most of what we do. Coaching ends up in the room too, because talking is how we find our way in, and because once something has shifted underneath, the obvious next question is what you do with it.

most of the session

Hypnotherapy

A deep, relaxed state that gives us access to your subconscious, so we can rewire what it learnt. You can't reason your way in here, which is exactly why being able to explain yourself never touched it. This is the work.

where it naturally leads

Coaching

Some talking at the start to find what we're going after, and some at the end about what this means for your real life. Not a separate service bolted on. Just where the conversation goes on its own.

If you've looked at my 1:1 coaching, this is not that with some hypnosis added. It's the other way round, and it's a genuinely different experience.

What actually happens in a session

Sixty minutes, start to finish. This is the part nobody ever explains properly, so here it is.

01

We talk first

What's happened since I saw you last, what came up this week, and what you want to feel instead by the time we finish today. This is how we choose what we're going after, rather than me guessing at it.

02

Then I relax you into hypnosis

Hypnosis is just a deep, relaxed state. That's all it is. You stay awake, you can hear me and answer me, and you can stop any time you want. Most women say it feels like being completely absorbed in a film, or those drifting few minutes before sleep. Your body gets heavy. Nothing else is required of you.

03

Then we rewire what your mind learnt

That relaxed state is what gives us access to your subconscious, and that's where the actual work happens. Your mind learnt something once and it has been running on it ever since. We change it there, at the level it was stored, rather than arguing with it from the outside. Women cry here often, and it's almost always relief rather than distress. You feel it leave while it's happening.

04

Then we talk about what just changed

What just moved, what it means for your actual Tuesday, and the one or two small things to practise before I see you again. You leave with a plan, not just a lovely feeling that fades by Thursday.

You are not going to relive it. That is the single most common fear women bring to me, so let me be direct: we are not here to go back through the pain in detail. We're here to change it. Most women feel something real shift inside the first two or three sessions.

In their words, not mine

Left exactly as they wrote them.

★★★★★

"My anxiety was at an all time high, I was holding onto so much anger and resentment. After 5 weeks of coaching, I have let go of my anger and feel so calm and free of anxiety. I feel like the future is going to be so different as I can feel myself transform into a more confident, motivated and self assured person."

Jemma

★★★★★

"I now have fewer arguments, allow myself to take breaks, and respond less impulsively. ... With small practical tools and exercises I can overcome my daily challenges and calm myself down when I feel I'm getting stressed or overwhelmed. The sessions with Fleur feel safe and grounded and I've enjoyed every single one of them."

Josien

★★★★★

"I also tended to get stuck in sadness and anxiety quite a lot. Since working with Fleur, rejection has popped up once and it was able to disappear whereas before it would stay with me for days and longer. I haven't dealt with sadness or anxiety since working with Fleur which is just amazing."

Tania

★★★★★

"You bring such grounded, level headed wisdom and you helped me travel so deeply into the parts of myself I was scared to go to before. I feel more freedom in my body and I feel more confidence in my mind and you're lifechanging."

Tarley

★★★★★

"I had previously seen a counsellor and had work supervision but found both falling short for my needs. ... The online sessions were challenging and transformational at the same time. I have learnt so much about myself and my behaviour which was impacting me negatively without me really being aware. I now have some great strategies which I can use for both work and at home, in my personal life which has made for a much happier and calmer household."

Tennille

★★★★★

"Before working with you, I was feeling like I was losing control of my thoughts and strong, confident mindset. I was doubting and questioning myself on everything. I could see myself becoming increasingly unhappy in life and changing into someone I didn't enjoy being. After 8+ weeks of honest, tough and enjoyable work together, I am feeling inspired & back in control of my thoughts."

Jana

Fleur Lonsdale, NLP Master Practitioner and Hypnosis Master Practitioner, at home

I lived this before I taught it.

I lost my baby at 17 weeks. I was already a coach. Already trained. I had every tool, and not one of them touched it. I cried for months and couldn't get out of my own head enough to feel even normal again.

A friend recommended NLP. It didn't just move the grief. It changed my relationship with my mum, with my partner, and it made me a genuinely relaxed, present mother. I went through my next pregnancy without the anxiety and fear I'd braced for.

Every tool I use with you, I used on myself first. I've been in the weeping. I've been in the release. I know what's on the other side because I walked there, not because I read about it.

That's also why I'll be honest with you on a call about whether this is right. I'd rather send you elsewhere than take your money for the wrong thing.

Master Coach · NLP Practitioner · Hypnotherapist · Subconscious Coach

This isn't for everyone

Say yes if

  • You've done the work and you're furious that it's still running
  • You want it changed, not explained to you again
  • You're willing to be honest with me, including about the unflattering parts
  • You have something you actually want on the other side of this

Don't, if

  • You have a reason ready for why nothing can change
  • You want someone to agree it's everyone else's fault
  • You want to keep understanding it rather than change it
  • You're not ready. That's allowed. Come back when you are

The things women actually ask me

Mainly hypnotherapy. That's where the change happens and it's most of what we do in the hour.

Coaching comes into it because it can't really not. We open by talking, which is how we find what's worth going after that day, and it's what leads us into the hypnosis. Afterwards we talk again about what it means for your actual week. That part is coaching, and it happens naturally rather than because I've scheduled it.

So it isn't purely hypnosis. It also isn't a coaching program. It's one 60 minute hypnotherapy session with the conversation that sits either side of it.

Quite a lot, and it's worth knowing before you pick. My 1:1 coaching is a coaching program. We work across your whole life, week by week, with hypnosis used when it's the right tool.

This is the reverse. Hypnotherapy is the main event, aimed at what you're carrying, and the coaching is what naturally grows around it. Fewer sessions, more depth per session, and a narrower target.

If you want ongoing work across everything, that's the coaching. If you want what's sitting on you dealt with at the level it actually lives, it's this.

No, and this is worth clearing up properly. Hypnosis is simply a deep, relaxed state. It isn't sleep, it isn't being put out, and you don't hand over control of anything.

You're awake and aware the whole time. You can hear me, speak to me, and stop at any point. You remember it afterwards. It feels closer to being deeply absorbed in a film than to being asleep, and you've almost certainly been in that state before without calling it hypnosis.

What the relaxation actually does is give us access to your subconscious mind, so we can change what it learnt instead of just talking about it. Nobody has ever been made to do anything in one of my sessions. That's stage hypnosis, and it's an entirely different thing.

No. This is the biggest fear women bring, and the answer matters. We are not going back through the detail of the worst thing that happened to you so you can feel it all again. That's not healing, that's just re-hurting.

We go to the decision you made about yourself in that moment, and we change the charge on it. The story stays. It gets fully acknowledged. What changes is what it made you believe about yourself.

Because you can probably explain exactly why you are the way you are, and it hasn't changed how you feel. That's the tell. Being able to see out of it isn't the same as being out of it.

Therapy helped you understand what happened. Hypnotherapy works underneath the understanding, on the feeling itself. I'm not a therapist or a counsellor and I'm not trying to be one. This is the layer underneath the talking.

On the call, and it comes down to the level of what you're carrying. For most women, eight weeks and four sessions is genuinely enough.

Where the wounds go deeper, or there are a few extra things that need working on, you need the extra weeks and the extra two sessions. Not because the work is different, but because rushing deeper wounds to fit a deadline doesn't work and I won't pretend otherwise.

You don't have to diagnose yourself. That's my job, and I'd rather put you in the right one than the more expensive one.

Completely normal, and it isn't a problem. Plenty of women arrive able to say only that they're on edge, tired of themselves, and want to feel different. That's enough to start with.

This work doesn't need you to know where it started. That's one of the real advantages of working underneath the thinking rather than through it. Finding what's there is part of the session, not something you have to sort out before you book.

Most women feel a real shift within the first two or three sessions. Not a nice mood. A different reaction in a situation that used to reliably set them off.

What I won't do is promise you a timeline for your whole life. I'll promise you the work goes deep, and that's why it moves faster than what you've tried before.

The change itself can genuinely feel easy, and I won't hedge on that. It lingered for years because the approaches you tried worked at the wrong level, not because you weren't trying hard enough.

What isn't easy is the honesty. You have to be willing to look at things you've spent a long time not looking at. You show up for that, and the rest of it is my job.

That happens often, and it's a good sign rather than a failure. Sometimes we clear the loudest thing and something older surfaces underneath it that's worth doing properly.

We'll talk about it in your final session, and I'll credit what you've already invested toward whatever comes next.

She Ignites is the group container. Same method, twelve weeks, and a room full of women moving through it with you. Some women want exactly that, and it's the most affordable way in.

These are 1:1 and they're hypnotherapy, which is a different experience entirely. Just me and you, working at the subconscious level, at your pace. Choose the group if the shared room appeals to you. Choose this if what you're carrying feels too personal, or too raw, to work through on a group call.

Thirty minutes. You tell me what's going on. I ask you some real questions. I tell you honestly which of these fits, or if neither does.

I don't do pressure and I don't do a fake deadline. If you're not right for this, I'll say so on the call, because taking money for the wrong thing is a terrible way to run a business.

You won't leave this as someone different.

You'll leave as the woman you would have become if fear, shame, guilt and protection had never been making your decisions for you. That's what this actually is. True strength was never becoming someone else. It's finally having the courage to consciously choose your own life.

Thirty minutes. No pitch. I'll tell you the truth about whether this is your thing.