Speaking & Workshops

Your strongest people are the ones least likely to tell you they're struggling.

Talks and workshops for organisations, on what's actually running underneath burnout and the things nobody says out loud.

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Not another resilience session.

You've already run the wellbeing talk. People came, people nodded, and six weeks later nothing had changed. That's not because your team wasn't listening. It's because awareness isn't change.

I'm a subconscious coach, and I'm not a therapist. What I do is name the pattern that's actually driving the behaviour, out loud, in language people recognise as their own life. That's the bit that makes it changeable, and it's why they're still talking about it months later.

I'll say the thing the room is thinking and nobody has said. With warmth, and without dressing it up.

Fleur Lonsdale speaking with a microphone on a panel of three, on stage at a live event

Fleur Lonsdale delivering a session to a full virtual room, her title slide on screen

Delivering to rooms in person and online.

What I speak on.

The One Conversation Your Leadership Team Keeps Avoiding

How leaders get the truth back in the room.

Your team isn't confused. They're being careful around you. What that silence is quietly costing you, and how to make it safe enough that people say the thing while you can still do something about it.

The Grief Your Workplace Doesn't Know How To Handle

What to say when there's nothing to say.

Someone comes back after the worst thing that's ever happened to them, and everyone acts normal because nobody knows what else to do. What actually helps, what makes it worse, and how to lead someone through it without needing to be a counsellor.

The Great Strength Lie

Why your most reliable people are the closest to walking out.

The one who never complains, never drops anything and always says they're fine. Why they're your highest risk rather than your safest pair of hands, and why this is the session the men in the room don't expect to land on them.

Every session is built for your room, and they all work with mixed audiences of women and men. Available as a 45 to 60 minute talk, a half day workshop, or a full day with a leadership team. In person or online.

Fees depend on the format and the size of the room, so I'll quote you properly once I know what you need.

Fleur Lonsdale beside a mirror in a gold sequin jacket, city skyline behind her

I didn't come to this from a therapy room.

I spent six years in the military from the age of eighteen, teaching cadets and training as an officer. I've ski raced and yacht raced. I've spent years on superyachts, working for some of the wealthiest people in the world.

From the outside that looks like a highlight reel. What it actually trained me in was performing strength, being useful, and being fine. I was very good at all three. Somewhere in it I lost my intuition entirely, and I didn't notice for years, because nothing in those rooms rewards you for noticing.

Then I lost a baby at seventeen weeks. And I found out that understanding what had happened to me changed absolutely nothing about how I felt.

What changed it was subconscious work. Not talking about it more, but changing what I'd decided about myself underneath it. That's why I can stand in front of your leadership team and describe the pattern from the inside, instead of off a slide.

"Fleur was very welcoming and had a unique way of connecting with a diverse range of personalities and situations. She used some powerful NLP techniques adding her own twist and catering to each individual's needs to get the best outcome. I found it was very useful and felt safe as a male to open up in such a vulnerable way in order to address things on a deeper level and get the breakthroughs I needed."

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